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This
short article aims to offer guidance in selecting a therapist or
counselor in the psycho-spiritual field. Although aimed at
psycho-spiritual therapists and clients much of what is written here
applies to seeking a therapist or counselor of other psychological
orientations.
If
you are seeking a practitioner to work with, you should try to be clear
about what you are seeking. Think of therapy and counseling as
consisting of four levels: problem-solving or symptomatic counseling,
therapy motivated by a presenting life issue (like a relationship or
marriage breakdown, career and finances difficulties, facing a change in
life or emotional crisis), depth psychotherapy which lasts longer and
is likely to be more profoundly life-changing and, finally, the
spiritual journey.
In
so far as psycho-spiritual psychology is part of the spiritual field a
number of misunderstandings have arisen from flimsy thinking. If you are
a student, a client or a convert seeking guidance from a therapist, a
guide or a spiritual teacher you are entitled to clarity. Just because
spirituality is concerned with the in-visible, numinous realms of light,
energy and inner reality doesn't mean that we cannot talk about it with
precision, grace and vividness.
So,
when you are approaching a practitioner of psycho-spiritual
psychotherapy do not hold back. Ask challenging questions about their
world view, their beliefs and their prejudices. Beware of references to
teachers, religions, scriptures, yogis and rishis etc.; if it's wisdom,
it should come directly from the practitioner.
Second,
be clear about where the practitioner is on the spiritual journey; ask
for definition, ask again if anything isn't clear, because you won't go
further than the spiritual guide while you are in their care, so you can
know immediately how far you're going and if this potential will
satisfy you by asking these kinds of questions.
Third,
remember this field is full of practitioners who don't know as much as
they make out. Flaky ideas about spiritual wisdom, higher knowledge and
non-verbal communication are all very well, but they may simply mask the
fact that the practitioner doesn't know, isn't wise enough yet or
doesn't know how to say it!
One
more thing: many practitioners today wear several hats. But a good
therapist is not necessarily a good teacher and vice versa, any more
then a good author on a subject -- any subject -- is necessarily a good
practitioner of what he writes about. So remember the roles of
individual therapist, course leader and author reflect independent
talents in your potential therapist.
Accolades,
accreditation, training count for something, but empathy, presence and
compassion are hard to learn in any training. So don't take anything for
granted simply because the practitioner is trained and accredited.
Well-qualified therapists exist who are mediocre, ineffective or no good
at all and under-qualified ones exist who are tremendously gifted and
innovative.
The
rules are to listen and hear, use your instinct and intuition, and
trust your gut-feeling when you are interviewing a potential
therapist-guide. And remember that it is you who is interviewing the
practitioner, not the other way round; you have nothing to prove to
them. Ultimately, offer it up to a higher power, because if it is the
right person for you to work with you will know, you will feel it and it
will come together.
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